Religions as well as politics do trigger intense emotions.
But a very simple solution was actually written 25 years ago by Neil Donald Walsch who did sincerely search for god for half a century until he got some wise revelations which he wrote down in his book “Conversations with God“.
Those insights brought my inner struggle between my aversion against organised religion and my search for the divine into a peaceful accord and liberated me to spiritually ascend uninhibited by being able to surrender to a higher power without being belittled by obsolete dogmas.
Atheists as well as agnostics and members of all religions,
you can take a lot out of this channeled wisdoms as long as you substitute the word god for the name of either the god of your religion or for “your higher self” or “the divine”.